One of the biggest things that give me
stress is that after graduation I’m going to have to pick between staying in
Tucson and going to college or moving up to Phoenix and go to college up there.
If I leave Tucson I will be leaving my mom’s side of the family along with my
best friend. One of the reasons I want to move up to Phoenix is to be with this
guy I have liked for 2 years and he’s in the army. We both have waited to date
each other till he gets out. So I’m still undecided what to do…. Up root my
life and leave my mom’s family and go live with my dad up in Phoenix for this
guy or stay down in Tucson.
Giiiiirl, I see how that can be very hard desicion! But if I was you I would just go with the descion that really makes you happy. So if being with your boo from the army is what you want to do then just go for it. Don't over think it because you'll just end up confused and doing something you REALLY don't want to do! I hope you pick something that really makes you happy :)
ReplyDeleteYou need to do what you want, what will make you happy. But what are you supposed to do when you don't know either of those things? Who will make you happiest. Who will treat you right? You don't know these things. But you need to figure them out for yourself. You can't have anyone tell you what is right for you to do. You know my opinion. I think you should stay single, and start college down here. But it's all in your hands.
ReplyDeleteCan you do both? Will this young man come down here for you? Even for a bit? Would you be making all of the changes or do you both make some change? Think on that. I look forward to hearing about your choice.
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DeleteI say go with what you tell you. Flip a coin, maybe? I don't even know what I would do in this situation its kinda tricky.
ReplyDeleteThis is a difficult decision. However, you are in the right time of your life to take risks. You basically have no responsibilities and you have the freedom to up root yourself and explore the possibilities that life is throwing in your direction. Like my grandmother used to say...If you are sitting in your rocking chair about 60 years from now watching your grandchildren play, what will your regrets be? You are young, explore the world, because mom will always be there for you.
ReplyDeletePick the choice that makes you happier, even if it means leaving people or someone you love. If moving up with the man you love is what makes you happy then go with him, if your family makes you happier then stay down here. Now if there is a middle where he can come down and visit while you stay with family then maybe that is how it should be. I know you will make the right decision girl.
ReplyDeleteWhile I'm usually not one to take risks, I'm not you. I can't give good advice either because I've never been in this situation before, but neither have you. Part of growing up is understanding that there never is any true right answer when it comes to these sort of things: do what you think is best for you.
ReplyDeleteI know how you feel when you have to decide between two things, but whatever you desire the most is what you should think about, good luck I know you will pick well.
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